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Some of you are straight. So are some women. But just as there is a strong pressure in the lifestyle for women to be bi, or at least bi playful (socially bi?), there is an equally strong pressure for men not to be. Think about what is listed as "turn-offs" or whatever name they go by in most swinger profiles: kids, scat, pain, bi men. Usually the last one is mentioned by both single men and couples with statements like "very straight," "not into man on man, "no male contact," or something like that. While it is a good thing to list things one is not interested in, and bisexuality may be one of them, it is still a little discomforting that it often finds itself mentioned by torture, pedophilia, and face shitting. The pressure is so great many bisexual men lie. We know a few that have either changed their profiles from bi to straight or have never listed their bisexuality. They say it is because it brings too much attention from bi or gay men. "When I had bi on my profile, all I got was men wanting to do me alone. Most couples wouldn't have anything to do with me," our friend D said.
Even if a bisexual man says "can play straight or bi depending on couple," it turns a lot of people off. We found another strong proof of the bi prejudice at a small swinger house party we went to. The guys were cracking gay jokes and going out of their way to let everyone knew they didn't want a cock anywhere near them. We have also never seen open male bisexual action at a sex club. So what? Some of you may be saying, "good." All we are suggesting is a little more open mindedness. If the lifestyle is about exploring one's sexuality, then all forms should be accepted. It is as natural for men to explore bisexuality as it is women. Of course, the rules always apply. Talk it out first. No one, man or woman, wants to be touched by someone they don't want to be touched by. What do you think? Any bi-sexual fantasies? Ever had a bisexual threesome, foursome, or moresome? Talk about it? Admit it? Let us know and we'll add to the conversation. Write us.
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